Step 1: Talk about the move early (and honestly)
Kids pick up on stress very quickly. They’ll notice calls with movers, packed boxes, and discussions about dates. If you don’t explain what’s happening, they’ll fill in the blanks themselves.
How to talk to young kids
- Use simple, concrete language:
“We’re moving to a new house. You’ll have a bedroom there, and we’ll bring your toys with us.”
- Show them pictures of the new neighborhood, building, or nearby playground.
- Emphasize what stays the same: parents, favorite toys, weekend rituals.
How to talk to older kids and teenagers
- Discuss the move as a family decision, even if the timing is not negotiable (for work, school, or rent reasons).
- Listen to their concerns about school, friends, and activities.
- Involve them in small decisions: how to set up their room, which wall color, where to put the desk, etc.
Step 2: Create a family moving plan and timeline
A move with kids and pets needs a clear structure; otherwise, the last week turns into chaos.
Make a simple moving timeline
Break your planning into phases:
4–6 weeks before moving day:
- Start decluttering rooms.
- Talk to schools or daycare about records and schedules.
- Book your movers and confirm date/time.
2–3 weeks before:
- Pack items you don’t use daily.
- Involve kids in packing non-essential toys or books.
- Decide what to do with pets on moving day (staying with a friend, pet sitter, or a quiet room at home).
Last week:
- Pack most items except daily essentials.
- Confirm details with the moving company (parking, access, elevators).
- Prepare “first night” bags for each family member and pet.
Give kids age-appropriate tasks
- Pre-teens and teens: pack books, clothes, decor from their room.
- Younger kids: help with labeling boxes using stickers or colors (“red stickers for your toys, blue for your books”).
Involving them gives a sense of control and softens the stress.
Step 3: Plan for pets from day one
Los Angeles can be loud, hot, and overwhelming on moving day. Dogs and cats might try to escape, hide, or react to strangers carrying furniture.
Before moving day
- Update ID tags and microchip contact details with your new address and phone number.
- Talk to your vet if your pet is anxious — for advice on travel, calming options, or a health check.
- Prepare a dedicated pet bag:
- Food and treats
- Water and bowls
- Leash or carrier
- Litter, poop bags, cleaning wipes
- Favorite toy or blanket
On moving day
- Keep pets out of the main moving zone:
- One closed room with a “Do not open – pets inside” note
- Or take them to a friend, family member, or pet sitter
- Avoid feeding a big meal right before a long car ride.
- For dogs: tire them out with a good walk earlier in the day.
First days in the new home
- Set up a “safe zone”:
- A quiet room with their bed, toys, and water
- For cats: keep them in one room at first, instead of letting them explore the whole place immediately.
- Keep their feeding times as close as possible to the old routine.
Step 4: Make moving day kid-friendly
Moving day in LA can be long: traffic, elevators, building rules, and constant questions from movers.
Decide where kids will be
- Ideal option: kids stay with grandparents, friends, or a trusted sitter during the heaviest part of the move.
- If that’s not possible:
- Create a safe corner away from heavy lifting.
- Prepare a “moving day kit” with:
- Snacks and water
- Tablet or books
- One or two favorite toys
Keep communication simple
Explain what will happen:
- “The movers will come in the morning.”
- “They’ll carry boxes and furniture to the truck.”
- “You’ll see your things again in the new house this afternoon / tomorrow.”
Kids feel calmer when they know the next steps.
Step 5: Pack smart for families (and the first 48 hours)
With kids and pets, the first two days in the new home are critical. You don’t want to dig through twenty boxes to find pajamas or a phone charger.
Family “essentials” boxes
Prepare a few clearly labeled boxes or suitcases:
For parents:
- Important documents (IDs, rental/closing paperwork, school records)
- Medication
- Basic tools (scissors, tape, screwdriver)
- Chargers and a small extension cord
For kids:
- 2–3 changes of clothes
- Pajamas
- Favorite toy or comfort item
- School essentials (if moving near school days)
For pets:
- Food for a few days
- Bowls, litter, waste bags
- Bed or blanket
Keep these in your own car if possible, not in the moving truck.
Step 6: Prepare for LA-specific challenges
Los Angeles adds its own flavor to moving:
Traffic:
- Try to avoid peak times when scheduling your move.
- Discuss timing with your movers; early starts often work better.
Parking and building rules:
- Ask your current and new building about loading zones, elevator reservations, and allowed moving hours.
- Share this info with the moving company well in advance.
Heat:
- On hot days, keep water accessible for kids, adults, and pets.
- Avoid leaving kids or animals in the car while you handle paperwork or elevator issues.
Step 7: Help your family settle in
The move doesn’t end when the truck leaves. The next few weeks are about building a new routine.
For kids
- Unpack their rooms early so they feel “at home” faster.
- Explore the neighborhood together:
- Closest park or playground
- Ice cream shop or café
- School route or bus stop - Keep a few old rituals: movie night, Sunday breakfast, bedtime stories.
For pets
- Walk dogs on a similar schedule to the old neighborhood.
- Let cats explore gradually, one room at a time.
- Keep feeding times consistent so they know they can rely on you in the new place.